Mary "Pat" Patricia Farney
April 4, 1950 - September 1, 2020
Joseph J. Smith
Patricia M Reilly
Janice D'Amato
Janet Au-Krug
Nancy Reilly
Don Mitchell
Cousin Annie
Mary, Bruce,Sarah,Ryan,Rob Carucci
Tim, Jack and Sean Reilly
Kathleen Hamm
Lynda, Tom & Jen Reilly Light a candle
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Funeral Service

Per her wishes, all services for Pat will be private.

Memorial Contributions

In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent in her name to:

MS Society or Ann’s Place

Pat (Mary Patricia) Farney of New Fairfield, CT passed away on Tuesday, September 1, 2020 at the age of 70. Pat was born in the Bronx on April 4, 1950, she was the daughter of Harold and Mary (Reilly) Farney who predeceased her. Pat spent her childhood in Greenburgh, NY graduating from Maria Regina High…

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Patricia M Reilly left a message on September 9, 2020:
Dear Pat, you were the link that held the family together. You were more than a niece, you were my friend. You have left a void that can't be filled. Love you, and may you rest in peace. Aunt Pat
Janice D'Amato left a message on September 6, 2020:
Pat, I will miss your friendship. May you be at peace and without pain.
Kay Hufstedler left a message on September 6, 2020:
I am so sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. I worked with Pat at IBM IN THE HONE group and her smile could light up a room! I’m sure that smile will brighten Heaven as well! Rest In Peace, Pat!
Carol Alexander left a message on September 5, 2020:
My dear friend...It was very difficult knowing you were suffering, and I know you are free from pain and worry in heaven. For this I am so thankful. But your friendship has been a constant in my life for over 51 years, and I’m going to miss you so so much. We became fast friends at IBM in White Plains in 1969. Five years later, we moved to California. What an adventure!! You were always such a joy to be with and I will cherish our friendship forever. I know we will meet again and pick up where we left off. Until then, I’ll be missing you. Love, Carol
Janet Au-Krug left a message on September 5, 2020:
Miss you, my friend. Loved all the times we laughed and talked. Will always remember your Beatles collection and Woodstock ticket. You were a rockstar! Love you.
Nancy Reilly left a message on September 5, 2020:
Pat, your light , I'm gonna let it shine for me ☀️ This little light of mine I'm gonna let it shine Let it shine, let it shine, let it shine For you and me Let it shine for you and me I'm gonna let it shine Let it shine for you and me Everywhere I go I'm gonna let it shine Let it shine, let it shine, let it shine Since I let my burdens down Glory glory Burdens down low Since I let my burdens down I feel better So much better Since I let my burdens down Love your cousin Nancy ❤️
Don Mitchell left a message on September 4, 2020:
RIP, dear Pat!... Give both your Mom & Aunt Theresa a kiss for me!! 💗
Barbara Kauffman left a message on September 4, 2020:
I will miss Pat dearly, my cousin and Godmother. She holds a very special place in my heart. Much love and prayers to all.
Adrienne Foster-Bexley left a message on September 4, 2020:
She was my childhood babysitter and I was in awe of her. So pretty and so cool.
Kev and Leen left a message on September 4, 2020:
God saw you getting tired when a cure was not to be. So He wrapped His arms around you and whispered, “Come to Me”. You didn’t deserve what you went through and so He gave you rest. God’s Garden must be beautiful, He only takes the best. So when we saw you sleeping so peaceful and free from pain, we could not wish you to come back to suffer that again. Pat, we missed you today just like we missed you yesterday. Just as we will tomorrow and the rest of our lives. With our love always, Kev and Leen 💙💜
Cousin Annie left a message on September 3, 2020:
Patsy, I will miss your sunny smile, your laugh and your great sense of humor. Visiting with you was always special and I will cherish the many memories of you and all our cousins over the years. You will forever be in our hearts. Love, Cousin Annie
Bonnie Paul left a message on September 3, 2020:
A little piece of my heart is with you Pat. So many wonderful memories of our time together. So many great Thanksgiving spent together...we always looked forward to you coming, you were the life of the party. I will miss you forever.
Mary, Bruce,Sarah,Ryan,Rob Carucci left a message on September 3, 2020:
Rest in Peace Cousin Patsy, your cheerful personality and smile shine on. Condolences to all your family.
DAVID KRUG left a message on September 3, 2020:
PAT I WISH YOUR RETIREMENT ON EARTH COULD HAVE LASTED LONGER. REST IN HEAVEN
Nancy Reilly left a message on September 3, 2020:
My Dear cousin Pat , My heart is truly broken 💔. I miss you dearly. I loved our time together, traveling, laughing, crying, sharing memories , and thoughts. It was way too short. I am thankful for knowing you and will always be in our hearts. May you Rest In Peace. My love and prayers to your family. And your loved ones 😘. Love always, your cousin Nancy Reilly
Tim, Jack and Sean Reilly left a message on September 3, 2020:
God speed sweet Pat. Your memories are what wonderful dreams are made of. Thank you. 🙏
Kathleen Hamm left a message on September 3, 2020:
Rest In Peace Pat, you will be greatly missed by all
Lynda, Tom & Jen Reilly left a message on September 3, 2020:
Our deepest sympathies and we will truly miss Patsy
Lynda, Tom & Jen Reilly left a message on September 3, 2020:
In memory of Mary "Pat" Patricia Farney, Lynda, Tom & Jen Reilly lit a candle
Joseph J. Smith left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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