Thomas A. Bonacci Jr.
May 16, 1969 - November 22, 2019
Joseph J. Smith
Janet Faillace
Barbara Messina
The Luczkowski Family
Anonymous
The Trayes family
Lora Lin Bonacci Fioretti
Chris, Lisa & Makenna Ryan
Margaret
Eleanor and Mario Muollo and Family
Mazzilli Family
Mitch Steinberg
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Visitation
Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home
692 U.S. Route 6
Mahopac, NY 10541
845-621-1992 | Map
Sunday 11/24, 1:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Cemetery

Private cremation services will follow.

Memorial Contributions

In lieu of flowers, contributions in memory of Tom may be made to the

Lustgarten Foundation for Pancreatic Cancer Research,  415 Crossways Park Dr., Suite D, Woodbury,  NY11797                                                                                                              [email protected]

Mass
St. John The Evangelist Church
225 East Lake Blvd
Mahopac, NY 10541
845-628-2006 | Map
Monday 11/25, 11:30 am

Thomas A. Bonacci Jr. of Mahopac, NY passed into eternal rest on Friday, November 22, 2019 at age 50.  He was born to Thomas and Barrie (Proctor) Bonacci Sr. on May 16, 1969 in Port Chester, NY. Tom was a graduate of North Salem High School and Westchester Community College.  He worked 30 years in…

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Shelley J Evans left a message on November 30, 2019:
Dear Barrie, Tom and family, Please accept condolences from the Evans family on the loss of your son Tom. We are so very sorry. Love, Shelley
Janet Faillace left a message on November 26, 2019:
So sorry to hear of the untimely passing of Thomas. May he have a peaceful rest. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Janet Faillace
Barbara Messina left a message on November 25, 2019:
In memory of Thomas A. Bonacci Jr., Barbara Messina lit a candle
Barbara Messina left a message on November 25, 2019:
Sending my condolences and love to the Bonacci family. Tom was an awesome man. God Bless the Bonacci family.
Leslie Crowe left a message on November 25, 2019:
So sorry for your loss. May Tommy Rest In Peace.
The Luczkowski Family left a message on November 25, 2019:
Our deepest condolences. May Tom rest in eternal peace!
Anonymous left a message on November 25, 2019:
In memory of Thomas A. Bonacci Jr., Anonymous lit a candle
The Trayes family left a message on November 25, 2019:
In memory of Thomas A. Bonacci Jr., The Trayes family lit a candle
Joanne M. Toss left a message on November 24, 2019:
Dear Andrea: I haven't seen you since our days at St. Ann's school MANY years ago … and I'm not even sure how you popped up on my Facebook after all these years - but I guess it was meant to be. I want to offer you sincere condolences on the loss of your husband - my heart truly breaks for you. May Tom RIP for eternity, and may you and your family heal from this with God's help. Joanne Marffie Toss
Lora Lin Bonacci Fioretti left a message on November 24, 2019:
Love You! See you later ❤️
Chris, Lisa & Makenna Ryan left a message on November 24, 2019:
May He Rest In Peace.
Margaret left a message on November 24, 2019:
In memory of Thomas A. Bonacci Jr., Margaret lit a candle
Eleanor and Mario Muollo and Family left a message on November 24, 2019:
Our Deepest Sympathy
Mazzilli Family left a message on November 24, 2019:
Tom holidays will not be the same without you around! It was always great seeing you & your beautiful family at all of Cips gatherings! Although you always sat across the table or at the end from me you were always a pleasure to have you around! Thanks for the positive words of encouragement to my son Michael about his career! We will all miss you & pray for you & Andrea & Tom Tom. Must have been a reason you were called early! Everyone of us has a # we yet not know!! See you sometime in the future Tom happy travels & RIP!
Mitch Steinberg left a message on November 24, 2019:
Andrea, I’m at a loss for words to express how much it hurts my heart that Tom is gone. We became friends at the gym, but it continued into our personal lives. People always say that someone was a good person when they pass, but Tom was genuinely a good person. That huge exterior contained a heart just as big. Please know that you and your children can always reach out to me for whatever you need.
Palma and Anthony Tabacco left a message on November 24, 2019:
Please accept our most sincere condolences! We will continue to pray for you and your family 🙏❤️
Marisa D’Agostino left a message on November 23, 2019:
This world has truly lost a wonderful person.
Hal Alpiar left a message on November 23, 2019:
Dear Barrie and Tom and Family - My heart cries out to you for God to sustain you through this most difficult of all losses. I cannot express the depth of what I understand Tom Jr. must have meant to all of you, but I can relate to family tragedies in ways many others have thankfully never had to endure. And I understand deep inside at least some of the extent of your loss. Keep reminding yourselves that he is finally at peace with God ... and that moving forward in life means being thankful for Tom having been part of it. My deepest sympathy and daily prayers go out to you. May the Lord bless you and keep you close. With hugs and warm thoughts -- Hal Alpiar
Viv left a message on November 23, 2019:
Am with you in my heart and soul. Would like to bring you a hug tomorrow but can't get there. Will explain and make up for it soon. May you be peaceful knowing that Tommy is no longer suffering. He's left all that up to you. I'm so very sorry.
Mary santangelo left a message on November 23, 2019:
Cousin Tommy was always laughing, always smiling. He was funny and loving. A gentle giant. He was the oldest boy of all the cousins, and always made time to swim with and hang out with all his cousins, nieces, and nephews, at his parents’ BBQ parties. He told me once that he always knew whenever I was visiting, because there would be an iced coffee from DD’s on the counter. We laughed. If he wasn’t working on his cars, or working with his dad, he could always be found hanging out with family. When he got married and had a son of his own, he remained true to his infectious personality, of love, a huge sense of humor, and dedication to family. It shows in his son’s eyes. I will miss him immensely.
Toni consiglio left a message on November 23, 2019:
In memory of Thomas A. Bonacci Jr., Toni consiglio lit a candle
Denise Giordano left a message on November 23, 2019:
RIP Tom
Catherine Fioretti/Lewis left a message on November 23, 2019:
You will always be our Superman! You were too good for this world, that's why God took you home. I love you so much Uncle Tom! I'm going to miss you terribly, but I'll see you again soon. I'm so thankful you are free from pain and living with our Lord and Savior. I know you'll watch over us and keep up safe. We now have the biggest most badass angel up there.
Linda Desmond left a message on November 23, 2019:
Our sincere condolences for your great loss. Thankfully he’s no longer in pain and is with our Lord. Our hearts are broken for you and your family.
Geralyn Hatcher left a message on November 23, 2019:
My thoughts and prayers are with you , may he rest in peace.
Karen gregory left a message on November 23, 2019:
I love you all.
Annmarie tower left a message on November 23, 2019:
In memory of Thomas A. Bonacci Jr., Annmarie tower lit a candle
Karla Kachadoorian left a message on November 23, 2019:
So sorry for your loss, Prayers for comfort and peace 🙏❤
Ellen Mirtz left a message on November 23, 2019:
There are no words to express the sadness over your loss. I am so sorry to hear this. Please accept my condolences.
Gina Santonas left a message on November 23, 2019:
I am so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. He was a wonderful person and we will all miss him.
Alexandra (Aly) Micalizzi left a message on November 23, 2019:
love you uncle tommy <3
Nicole Burt left a message on November 23, 2019:
In memory of Thomas A. Bonacci Jr., Nicole Burt lit a candle
Nancy Mazzilli left a message on November 23, 2019:
Tom, To look at you, those who didn’t know you thought of you as all muscle...we knew you as all heart. Sweet and gentle, kind and considerate and a guide to what true spousal love should look like. You adored Andrea and the kids and it was reciprocated. This was beyond imaginable to most of us but devastating to those closest to you. I know you will continue to be their strength and guiding light. Taken from us way to soon, may you always Rest In Peace. Nancy Mazzilli
Trish Lohan Kaplan left a message on November 23, 2019:
Peace in heaven.
Nina Westfall-Fennessy left a message on November 23, 2019:
In memory of Thomas A. Bonacci Jr., Nina Westfall-Fennessy lit a candle
David Ciriello left a message on November 23, 2019:
A person that departs from this earth never truly leaves, for they are still alive in our hearts, and through us, they live on. My condolences to Tom's family.
Tina Gutman left a message on November 23, 2019:
Know that my heart is broken for all of you and that I love you Barrie and Tom, very much Tina 💔
Linda kalman left a message on November 23, 2019:
My condolences to you and your family. Tom was a wonderful person may he be at peace. So sorry Andrea
Cathy & Tony left a message on November 23, 2019:
Our deepest sympathies. Sending much love to his family.
Romano family left a message on November 23, 2019:
Such an unbelievable loss, all our luv and prayers to you all at this very difficult time. Xoxoxo
James Cooke left a message on November 23, 2019:
I knew Tom from the gym. He was a nice guy to me and everyone in that gym. He will always be remembered. My prayers go out to him and his family.
Evelyn sack left a message on November 23, 2019:
My condolences to my dear friend Andrea Bonancci words cant describe who sorry I am for your loss is never easy to let go the special someone my family and I sending you our prayers and love may Tom Rest In Peace 🙏😢💜💜💜love you family Bonancci.
Dennis & Robin Fox left a message on November 23, 2019:
In memory of Thomas A. Bonacci Jr., Dennis & Robin Fox lit a candle
Marie Shea left a message on November 23, 2019:
RIP Superman...admired, respected & missed always! Marie Shea
Lisa Knapp mercando left a message on November 23, 2019:
Praying for you and your family. My sincere condolences. May he rest peacefully. I'm SURE your mom and dad will take good care of him.
Teresa McMahon left a message on November 23, 2019:
My sincere condolences . Wishing Tom Tom eternal peace.
LOIS Boniello left a message on November 23, 2019:
Incredibly sad for your loss.
Daniel Merusi left a message on November 23, 2019:
Rest In Peace old friend. Definition of good man, father & friend. Truly life changing loss. Will be missed.
Aneta & Mike Bilinski left a message on November 23, 2019:
No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. However, take comfort in knowing that Tommy is now resting in the arms of our Lord. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Laura Rainaldi left a message on November 23, 2019:
Sorry for your families loss
Mike Pinto left a message on November 22, 2019:
R.I.P. 🙏🏻
Joseph J. Smith left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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